Screen Time buat Anak.

"The fear of ‘screen time’ is so deeply ingrained in our collective imagination that an irrational opposition between outdoor play and media consumption is taken for granted."* Semenjak menikah dan harus ngurus dua orang anak (sekarang tiga), pertanyaan "am I being a good mom" lumayan sering menggelitik di otak saya. Bukannya apa-apa, saya yang sebelumnya…

Harapan vs Kenyataan

Idealnya: Tiap malem saya bisa istirahat tidur nyenyak tanpa ada gangguan apapun sampe pagi alarm berbunyi. Yang terjadi: Ada aja gangguan menghampiri. Satu waktu anak yang paling besar ga bisa tidur karna denger suara nyamuk non-stop, di waktu lain tiba-tiba tengah malam dateng si anak gadis laporan kalo dia mimpi buruk sampe sedikit ngompol. Nah…

Tantrum.

"Tantrums are not bad behavior. Tantrums are an expression of emotion that became too much for the child to bear. No punishment is required. What your child needs is compassion and safe, loving arms to unload in." - Rebecca Eanes. Our little one is now sleeping quietly in his room. Well, this condition is totally…